Titus 2:2-8 (NLT)
Teach
the older men to exercise self-control, to be worthy of respect, and to live
wisely. They must have sound faith and be filled with love and patience. Similarly, teach the older women to live in
a way that honors God. They must not slander others or be heavy drinkers. Instead, they should teach others what is
good. These older women must train the
younger women to love their husbands and their children, to live wisely and be
pure, to work in their homes, to do good, and to be submissive to their
husbands. Then they will not bring shame on the word of God. In the same way, encourage the young men to
live wisely. And you yourself must be an
example to them by doing good works of every kind. Let everything you do reflect
the integrity and seriousness of your teaching. Teach the truth so that your
teaching can’t be criticized. Then those who oppose us will be ashamed and have
nothing bad to say about us.
When I saw the word “older” written in this passage, I
was reminded of this funny story: A woman approached a little old man rocking
in a chair on his porch. She said,
"I couldn't help noticing how happy you look, what's your secret for a
long happy life?" He replied,
"I smoke three packs of cigarettes a day, drink a case of whiskey a week,
eat fatty foods, and never exercise." "That's amazing," the
woman said. "How old are you?' "Twenty-six,"
Titus was a young man who Paul converted to
the Christian faith. We don’t know much
about Titus as he is not mentioned in Acts as so many early Christians
are. However, Paul mentions Titus in his
letter to the Galatians (2:1-3) and several times in II Corinthians (2:13, 7:6,
7:13-14, 8:5-6; 8:16-24, and 12:18) where it is obvious how important Titus was
in ministry. Paul viewed Titus as
someone who could be depended on to accomplish important tasks and was an excellent
role model in trying circumstances.
Thus, as Paul writes his letter to his younger colleague, he gives him
these instructions for teaching sound doctrine to other people.
Note what are to be characteristics of
“older men”--- self control, worthy of respect, wise living, sound faith, and
filled with love and patience. When you
first see the word “older”, you think of someone really old, like in their
80s-90s. No, old age in ancient Greece
was viewed to be 50 and older. Paul
writes in verses 6-8 that even young men are to live wisely just like old
men. Furthermore, mature Christians like
Titus are to serve as examples, as Paul teaches, by doing good works,
reflecting integrity (purity), sound doctrine, and being truthful so that you
are beyond reproach in whatever you say and no one can say anything negative
about you.
Paul also gives instructions to older women
to serve as examples to younger women by loving your husband, loving your
children, live wisely, be pure, work in the home (hmmmm, that will raise
eyebrows in today’s society), do good (be kind) and be submissive to your
husband (also controversial unless husbands earn such respect via your
sacrificial loving attitude and actions toward your wife).
The encouragement of this passage for older
folks reading this is that God gives us a vital ministry regardless how old we
are. If you are over 50, be encouraged
that you have a role to play as a mentor and example to younger Christian
people, even to those who are not Christian yet. Old age is not an excuse to retire as a
Christian. Old age is a time for a
Christian to influence others in their Christian walk that you could never do
as a younger person. Do not let old age
deter you from serving the Lord in special ways and be useful in His kingdom as
Paul so clearly points out in this passage to his friend, Titus.
An unknown author wrote: “Age is a quality of mind. If
you have left your dreams behind, if hope is cold, if you no longer look ahead,
if your ambitions' fires are dead---then you are old. But if from life you take the best, and if in
life you keep the zest, if love you hold; no matter how the years go by, no
matter how the birthdays fly, you are not old.”
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