I Corinthians 12:6 (NCV)
And
there are different ways that God works through people but the same God. God
works in all of us in everything we do.
The Scripture
states that God works in different ways through different people. OK, you can see that by simple observation
that others are different from you and you are different in many ways from
others. Perhaps a more important truth,
one that is no so obvious, yet one that needs to be understood and appreciated
is that God is responsible for the differences that exist among people. It is the same God who empowers each of His
believers (by the way, Paul is speaking to believers, not the world of
unbelievers) to have different gifts and capabilities. No gift or capability is superior to
another. The person who can speak well
and pray magnificent prayers is not superior to the person who cannot speak or
pray well at all.
Because there are
different ways that God works through people, we should never, ever compare
ourselves with others. You can easily
get caught up in the competitive world of business, sports, and other
endeavors, start comparing yourself to others ugly things typically
happen. Comparison to others leads to a
variety of emotions, from smugness and arrogant pride to jealousy, envy, and/or
depression. Whatever the result,
comparing yourself to others is absolutely wrong. You always lose when you do this. If you constantly focus your life on
comparing yourself to others, you will always find somebody better and somebody
worse. Someone once said that the main
reason we compare ourselves with others is to find approval. When you do this, you are always allowing
others to control your life.
Parents, teachers, coaches, and, especially
business world people managers/executives compare people all the time. “Do what sister Mary does”. “Why can’t you be like Bobby?” “Your brother would never do that”. Your overall rating was less than Ed’s. When you hear these kinds of comparisons as a
child, they never leave you. When you
hear these comparisons as an adult, it can be very demoralizing (or generate
excess pride). Then think about this
……..what does advertising do…….ads for weight loss, building muscles, new
clothes, new cars, etc.---they are forcing you to compare yourself and your
situation with others. The world value
system at its finest and it’s unbiblical.
The Bible is clear that you are never compare
yourself to others. Read Galatians
6:4---“Let everyone be sure that he is doing his very best, for then he will
have the personal satisfaction of work well done, and won't need to compare
himself with someone else.” (LB). And
think about Romans 12:6: “Let's just go ahead and be what we were made to be,
without enviously or pridefully comparing ourselves with each other, or trying
to be something we aren't.”. (The Message)
May you realize from this time forward that
you are who God created you to be and you are not to be someone else. You have gifts that God gave to you and you
are to use those gifts to please Him, not worrying about pleasing anyone else.
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