Philippians 4:11-13
(NLT)
Not that I was ever in need, for I have
learned how to be content with whatever I have.
I know how to live on almost nothing or with everything. I have learned
the secret of living in every situation, whether it is with a full stomach or
empty, with plenty or little. For I can
do everything through Christ, who gives me strength.
I published a topical Bible study book
entitled, Enriching Christian Doctrine and Character (AuthorHouse) in 2009. It contains 52 topics, one for each week of
the year. In organizing the topics, the
one I chose to be the last topic was “Contentment and Peace” because I think
that to have contentment and peace is the greatest of blessings. I am reproducing my opening paragraph: “Being
content and at peace are the most treasured, wonderful, and blessed feelings to
experience in all of life. Yet,
contentment and peace are not natural human emotions. Without contentment we don’t have peace of
heart and mind. We live in a society
that is full of discontent. People
gravitate toward being discontented about what they have (or rather don’t
have), what they look like, what job they have, and in whatever circumstances
they live. People who complain all the
time are discontented and lack peace. It
seems that people complain about everything, especially our jobs, other people,
even our church.”
Contentment is a
quality that is learned through life’s experiences. Paul states that he has learned how to
be content with whatever he has. It is
not a natural characteristic of humankind.
Certainly our culture readily causes discontentment. You do not learn to be content easily and you
certainly cannot learn to be content through anything that the world has to
offer such as through materialism, business success, and other achievements.
There’s a story of
a rich English lord who overheard one of his servants remark, “Oh, if I only
had five pounds, I would be perfectly content”.
He wanted this servant to be perfectly content and so figured out a way
to reward her with a five pound note.
Oh, yes, she was so thankful.
Yet, when the lord left the room, but paused for a moment outside the
door, he heard her say, “Why on earth didn’t I ask for ten pounds”.
Indeed, doesn’t
this describe our human tendency never to be satisfied with what we have even
if we obtain more? It’s a learning process
to “know how to enjoy what you have and to be able to lose all desire for
things beyond your reach” (Lin Yutang).
How content are you
right now? Likely the younger you are,
the less contented you are with yourself and what you have. Take heart that you can learn to be content,
but start learning right now that whatever the world has to offer with respect
to riches, materialism, and success is not going to give you lasting
contentment. The secret of contentment
is not having much but wanting little.